what is EMDR?

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is a structured, evidence-based therapy developed to help people heal from traumatic and distressing life experiences. It is best known for its effectiveness in treating Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), but it is also used to address a wide range of mental health challenges including anxiety, depression, phobias, grief, chronic pain, and more.

EMDR doesn’t rely heavily on talk therapy or medications. Instead, it uses bilateral stimulation (typically eye movements, sounds, or taps) to help the brain reprocess stuck or unprocessed memories. The goal is to reduce the emotional charge of these memories and allow clients to integrate them in a healthy way.

How EMDR Works

When something traumatic or highly stressful happens, the brain can become overwhelmed and fail to fully process the event. As a result, the memory gets stored in a fragmented, “frozen” state—often accompanied by intense emotions, physical sensations, and negative beliefs.

EMDR uses bilateral stimulation (e.g., left-right eye movements, alternating sounds, or tactile pulses) while you briefly focus on a distressing memory. This activates both hemispheres of the brain, mimicking the natural processing that occurs during REM (Rapid Eye Movement) sleep, the phase of sleep where we process emotions and memories.

During EMDR:

 The emotional intensity of the memory decreases

 The memory becomes less vivid and more distant

 New, adaptive beliefs (e.g., “I am safe now,” “It wasn’t my fault”) begin to emerge

 The body also releases the physical tension tied to the trauma

This approach supports healing not just cognitively, but emotionally and somatically.